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Emotional Intelligence and Situational Leadership

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EQ Components

Self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, social skills

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Leadership Styles

Directing, Coaching, Supporting, Delegating

Match

Style to Readiness

Follower maturity drives leadership style

match your style to the follower, not your preference

Hersey-Blanchard Style Grid

high
direction
low
direction

Directing

high dir · low supp

new hire

Coaching

high dir · high supp

learning

Supporting

low dir · high supp

capable

Delegating

low dir · low supp

senior IC

low supporthigh support →

follower matures clockwise · so does your style

EQ · Five Components

Self-awareness

Self-regulation

Motivation

Empathy

Social skills

Exam Traps

EQ is teachable, not innate

The PMP tests awareness that emotional intelligence can be developed through practice and feedback.

Situational leadership matches the follower

Match your style to the follower readiness, not your own preference. A Performing team does not need Directing.

Empathy is not agreement

Empathy means understanding how the other person feels. It does not mean agreeing with them.

EQ can be learned

Self-awareness, empathy, social skills. All teachable with practice.

One style does not fit all

Directing a senior engineer is insulting. Delegating to a new hire is abandonment. Match the style.

1
Directing

First day on the bike. You hold the seat and give clear instructions. The rider needs guidance.

2
Coaching

They can pedal but fall often. You ride alongside and offer corrections. Less hands-on.

3
Supporting

They ride on their own but get nervous on hills. You encourage and remove obstacles.

4
Delegating

They can ride to school alone. You trust them and stay out of the way.

Direct new, coach learning, support capable, delegate expert.
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Updated May 2026